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Open
Records
The Canadian Council of
Natural Mothers believes that records pertaining to birth belong to the
individuals involved: natural parents and people adopted. Open records
means that records relating to the birth, registration of birth, and adoptive
names should be available as a right to the individuals involved. Closed
records means that records of births for people adopted and the adoptive
identities of sons and daughters for natural parents are sealed and unavailable
to the individuals involved, except through arbitrary and inconsistent
differing provincial government procedures. Open records should be regarded
as a means and a personal choice for people separated by adoption to validate
the truth of past events and to seek each other out and heal the wounds
of the past.
- Access to identifying information
should be available to people separated by adoption: mothers, fathers,
sons, daughters, grandparents, siblings, children of people adopted
and all their descendants.
- Adult people adopted should
have access, upon request, to their original birth certificates and
all identifying information about their natural parents.
- Mothers should have access,
upon request, to the original birth certificate and the adoptive name
of their sons or daughters and the names of the adoptive parents at
the time of adoption
- Adoptive parents should
have access to their minor children's identifying information
- Intermediaries in jurisdictions
with closed records have access to identifying personal information
about the separated parties: mothers, fathers, and now-adult sons or
daughters. The intermediaries are strangers to those parties and have
no personal commitment to the parties nor immediate knowledge or lived
experience for understanding the importance of that information to the
people that this information affects most dramatically
- Payment to intermediaries,
who are strangers, in order to obtain personal information, is demeaning
and oppressive to both mothers and people adopted when the majority
of Canadian citizens have unfettered access to their same personal information
as a right.
- Closed records and disclosure
through intermediaries demeans the mothers as adolescents and people
adopted as children when they are clearly now adults. The mothers were
considered "adult" at the time of signing the surrender documents
although many were legal minors, therefore, they should be considered
and treated as adults in the present. People adopted, who are adults,
do not need government protective services required by children. Both
are adults capable of conducting their own affairs with regard to identifying
adoption information.
- Open records for people
adopted allow them to connect with their origins and helps facilitate
their whole identities.
- Open records for mothers
will help many to heal and to process their frozen trauma, grief and
loss created by closed records and adoption.
- Open records restores the
right of choice for people separated by adoption. The reunions of mothers
and their adult sons and daughters can be successful when both parties
have access to identifying information and are in control of the circumstances
of search and reunion through real choice.
The CCNM does not support
the information veto preserving the anonymity of either natural parents
or people adopted. The availability of full identifying information as
a right should not be abrogated in any manner.
The CCNM does not support the contact veto with fines and legal consequences
should contact be made. Contact cannot be stopped outside the existing
laws that apply to all members of society. The CCNM proposes a Contact
Preference wherein each party may specify the terms of contact: immediate
contact, contact after a waiting period, contact through an intermediary,
or no contact. If a no contact preference is filed, then updated medical
information must be made available to the applicant. It must be made clear
that a contact preference is not used to deny contact but is as stated,
a preference.
In all adoptions, the CCNM
supports openness wherein people separated by adoption are not deprived
of their rights to information about one another, have access to and contact
with one another, and that natural parents have accountability from the
adoption facilitators and the appropriate government bodies for the care
and well-being of their children surrendered to adoption. People [as babies,
as children and as youths] who are adopted, should have from the moment
of separation from their natural families, the right to and advocacy when
necessary for unfettered access to information about and contact with
their natural families, their original birth certificates and the right
to decide for themselves whether they want ongoing relationships with
their natural families. The conditions of openness are only subject to
change in individual cases where children are demonstrated to be at risk
from one or both parents.
©The Canadian
Council of Natural Mothers
August 2004
 
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